If I didn't know any better, I'd swear you were present for a conversation I just had with Roslyn and another friend of ours. When you've had so many challenges in your life from childhood to adulthood you learn this thing called "adjusting." We adjust when we can't add one more thing to our plate. We just push over the peas and get on with it. In the past, we did it because we had no choice. Now, it's just a bad habit.