Natalie, this was a think piece for me in a way. And I love the the forum here. I do think we can use the phrase “unconditional love” without knowing what it really means — at least what it means for us. I’ve often said, marriages aren’t always romances. Marriage is a commitment. Marriage isn’t about sharing “your life” with someone. Marriage is two people creating a life together. That’s hard stuff. And I commend those who are married and committed. Add interracial and intercultural to that commitment and I have to say, “wow,” because our society makes that even harder.

And I see where you are coming from. So, when we say “unconditional love” does that mean one should stay in a marriage where one partner is making poor decisions that affects their life in a detrimental way? I would say “hell no.” You may love someone but can’t “create a life with them” because it’s harmful to stay. I know someone who recently divorced because they were “financial abused” in their marriage.

It’s an interesting topic and conversation here. I’m loving it.