Sara you could have been a butterfly on the wall of a conversation I just had with a guy friend of mine. My guy and I recently opened our relationship because he is out of the country now. He didn't like the idea at first but I told him, I'd rather be honest because in that long of a time a part we could want to date or see other people. Well as I'm talking about it with my guy friend, he acted as if I should catch a plane every other month and join my guy. As if I don't have a life. My whole life should be about a guy?